Purpose
By the end of this lesson, you will be able to correctly choose between “du” and “Sie” based on the social context, extending Part 1, Lesson 6’s introduction of “ihr.”
Lesson Explanation
German has two words for formal/informal “you,” genuinely mirroring the French tu/vous distinction covered in the earlier French course:
du — informal, singular: used with friends, family, children, peers Sie — formal, singular or plural: used with strangers, elders, professional contexts
Recall from Part 1, Lesson 6 that ihr is genuinely distinct from both — it is specifically the informal plural “you all,” used when speaking informally to more than one person, while Sie covers formal contexts regardless of number.
Using du with someone expecting Sie can come across as disrespectful; the general default with someone new, especially in a professional context, is Sie. Switching to du typically happens only after the other person suggests it directly, often with Wollen wir uns duzen? (“Shall we use du with each other?”).
Practice Questions
1. When is “du” typically used?
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Informally, with friends, family, children, or peers.
2. When is “Sie” typically used?
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Formally, with strangers, elders, or in professional contexts, regardless of number.
3. What earlier lesson introduced “ihr”?
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Part 1, Lesson 6.
4. What does “ihr” specifically mean, distinct from both du and Sie?
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The informal plural “you all.”
5. Does “Sie” change based on whether you’re speaking to one person or several?
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No — it covers both, as long as the context is formal.
6. What can happen if you use “du” with someone expecting “Sie”?
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It can come across as disrespectful.
7. What is the general default with someone new, in a professional context?
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Sie
8. When does switching from “Sie” to “du” typically happen?
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After the other person suggests it directly.
9. What specific German phrase suggests switching to “du”?
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Wollen wir uns duzen?
10. What earlier language course covers a genuinely similar formal/informal distinction?
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French, with its tu/vous distinction.
11. Would you use “du” or “Sie” when meeting your new boss for the first time?
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Sie
12. Would you use “du” or “Sie” when speaking to your childhood best friend?
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du